.Thursday, March 12, 2009 ' 11:28 PM Y
PASSERBY(s)

In life, there definitely be lots of passerby whom pass by your life. Some may stay for awhile but they leave. They can be your enemy, ex-lover, acquaintance. However, for some, they may stay for a lifetime. They can be your parents, love ones. Both pass by your life, and they are the one to decide whether to stay or to leave.
Actually, is you have the last call. Do or Die, its really up to you to decide. No one can waver your decision upon the things you HAD ALREADY DECIDED. For instance, you have decided to go oversea during your holidays with your friends. But, one of your friend could not make it. Will you cancel the trip because that particular friend couldn't make it?
Sometime when you ask the decision of others, its actually you are doing a DOUBLE CHECK. you want to check if he/she will react like what you will react, so you wont feel your decision is wrong. for instance, you eye on this particular dress, and you want it soo much and so, you brought your friend along to see this dress, hoping that she/he will like it. However, he/she commented on this dress VERY negatively. So, if he/she said its ugly, will you still go and try it? or even buy it? even if you buy it, will you still wear it if you are with him/her? how will you feel if you wear this dress, whereby your friend commented soooo negatively about this dress?!
well. these are all how i feel. you may disagree, though. :)
xoxo
baoying

Life still goes on